A Reason, a Season, or a Lifetime People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It isusually to meet a need you have expressed. They havecome to assist you through a difficulty, to provide youwith guidance and support, to aid you physically,emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realise is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON . . .Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh.They may teach you something you have never done.They usually give you an unbelievable amountof joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in allother relationships and areas of your life. It is saidthat love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
I posted this because recently I had a friend that came to me for a reason, we used to talk all the time. My friend was a godsend, provided me with guidence and support, and pointed me in the right direction to take care of myself. But of late our conversations have been cut short with the excuses of, " someone is on the other line." or " I will call you back later." but later never comes. I realize now that my friends work is done.
You were an answer to a prayer, and now it's time for both of us to move on.
Thank you for being my friend for the time you were. You were and are AWESOME.
1 comment:
My personal opinion and again this is my own thoughts are that you maybe being to critical of your friend and they may have lots going on in their lives. Or maybe you should just be patient with them or well you may be right...again all my own opinions...
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